So hubby got me a game I’ve been nagging him for a couple days ago for an early Christmas present. It’s not really his cup of tea, so for the past few days I’ve been playing it and he was keeping himself busy on his phone, his laptop, reading a book, whatever he could do to kill the boredom.
I realised that I needed to take regular breaks from the game, as to not get headaches and to rest my eyes.
“What better way to do this, than having some fun with hubby?”, I thought to myself!
So the plan for tonight is to:
Tie him to the bed (naked, of course)
Tell the kids to not go bother dad, he’s tired and sleeping (we had an “incident”)
Set my phone’s timer to 20 or 25 minutes, I’ll see how I feel
Each time the timer goes off, I’m going to pause my game, go to the room and get him freshly hard by giving him a blowjob or a handjob or doing something slutty and sexy with him.
Edging him a couple times is key!
Each time he’s going to likely get soft again waiting for me, and I get him back hard again. Hopefully this drives him crazy!
I might blindfold him at some point as well, if not from the get go.
I’d say “wish me luck” but I think I should rather say: “Wish my hubby luck, girls!” – I’ve been known to play PS4 from 5pm to way past midnight!
Pro-tip for this type of thing, if you’re going to join me in this adventure: Use lube, and make sure to hydrate hubby – especially if you’re planning to give him an orgasm every hour or so.
Get to know your metronome app a little – imagining him stroking to the beats. Increase the beat, lower the beat – change it to 2 or 3 “clicks per beat” or like I call them “strokes per beat”. Mess around a little and let your imagination wonder!
Have hubby get ready – perhaps tie everything down except his dominant hand. Blindfold him perhaps?
Start the metronome, and tell hubby:
Your goal is not to cum!
Stroke to the beat!
Don’t stop unless you edge.
Tell me when you edge.
If I tell you to “ride” the edge, stroke at your own pace in order to stay as close to the edge as you can, but do not cum!
If you cum without my permission, you lose.
Then start playing around.
Start slow, speed things up, slow it down again… really get in his head.
Pro-tip: For added fun, eventually when hubby is really worked up – set the speed to a constant, slow and agonising speed and tell him to stick to the speed – then start to play with with yourself and make yourself cum. See if this can make him cum or not. Both is fun. Both is fine 🙂
Hubby loves to spoon… and I know the feeling of sex is overwhelming to him (under the right conditions) when he enters me while spooning. So, we started a bit of a game:
Over the past few days I unlocked him each night, and teased him rock-hard… I made sure his penis is properly lubed up… and then I tell him:
You may enter me, and have your way with me – but only for a fixed amount of seconds. If the timer runs out, you have to pull out! No matter what! The rule is even if he starts cumming he has to pull out, and possibly ruin his orgasm in this manner.
Tuesday (two days ago) it was 10 seconds – he failed! Yesterday it was 20 seconds – he failed! Tonight’s going to be 30 seconds – I think he’s gonna fail again!
Let’s see how long we can drag this out until he gets to cum 🙂
Naturally the amount of seconds added each time is up to you… heck, perhaps connect it to chores done in and around the house – a second added for every thing done! Make him work for it 🙂
Oh, and btw, the plan is that even if he cums say 5 seconds before the timer he still has to pull out when it runs out. I’m hoping that when he gets to cum it ends up being a couple seconds before, and have him pull out and half ruining it.
A great way to drive a man crazy with lust and hormones, is to play with his erection state. When a male gets an erection, it causes testosterone to be injected into his bloodstream, facilitating the production of seminal fluid.
When you have hubby tied to the bed, or a chair, or restrained in some other way – a great (and fun) way for you to drive him absolutely crazy is to tease a rock-hard erection out of him, and then do something else while you wait for it to subside… then tease another one out, and wait for it to subside… carry on like this until you lose interest or take it to the next step.
Not only does it drive him crazy, but it also creates subtly more pressure in his balls – so if you do this, and then don’t let him release, but lock him up again – it’ll drive him crazy!
Careful though – the hornier and crazy he gets, the easier it is for you to “slip up” and push him over the edge. What to do when you make this fun mistake?
Easy: Ruin him!
Or if you want to see how much cum you made him produce, carry on and see if you can break a “personal record” 🙂
A friend asked me how I deal with hygiene when hubby is locked up, and she wants to unlock and play. She mentioned that he smells more musky or sweaty because of the cage. This is natural – the cage isn’t supposed to be there, according to our body, so it’s going to sweat more and there’s nowhere the sweat can go. That’s why daily washing is important!
My advice, if you are planning to “play” with him, do this:
Have him take a shower and wash properly (unlocked)
As usual, when he exits the shower, he should have his cage washed (of course!) and have him put it back on – thinking to himself “ok, no playtime tonight”.
Make sure it’s locked!
Later on, have him lay on the bed and tie him down – properly, so he can’t play with himself. (side-note: men love it when their ladies tie them down extremely well, so make sure he’s properly restrained!)
Unlock him, and have him “air out” a bit.
If you want, use a warm soft wet cloth to “wipe him off” sensually. This always gets my hubby hot for me… and it makes sure you’re happy with things down there.
Then, do what you desire to do with him (or, not! tying him down, unlocking him and then later just lock him back up again could be incredibly frustrating to him!)
Something to consider as well, is the cage. Most people have one already, and stick with it. Chastity cages are expensive! But if you do want to get another one – I’d suggest a chrome/wired one that has lots of breathing space.
Fun game: After denying him an orgasm for a couple days (with chastity or otherwise), have him undresses for “inspection”. Upon making sure he’s properly groomed and clean, tell him to get hard for you.
Have your cane or whip ready.
Tell him to stroke himself and when you tell him to edge he should get to the edge and tell you when he’s there.
Tell him to “ride” the edge until you whip / cane him; then it’s hands off and a rest until you tel him to start again a few seconds later.
Keep going until he’s properly frustrated, properly whipped or both.
Then lock him up again and maybe have him “service” you.
Bonus points for pros if you can have him ruine an orgasm. Be ready to restrain his hands though if that happens, he won’t be able to make himself stop.
If you’re new to it (or even if you just want to fool around again) it can be pretty simple!
Tell him you’re going to be denying him for a couple days (or put him in a cock-cage to make it clear), and then make a point of masturbating multiple times a day, but at least once a day – the key is to do it in front of him, or half the time when he knows you’re doing it but he’s at work or not around.
See! Simple! Don’t overdo it if you don’t want to or don’t know how to make it a complex game or even if you don’t necessarily have the time, what with work and life and kids.
Example of “he knows you’re doing it”: Send him a text message, ask him how his day is going, then tell him you’re naked and about to get busy with yourself – send him a nude if you feel like it. Then a couple minutes later when you’re done, tell him you’re done. Heck, tell him how many times you came! It drives men crazy with lust!
That’s the point of it, isn’t it?
Bonus: You get to cum, which is also kinda the point, isn’t it?!