She tied hubby to their bed, blindfolded and naked, and set his phone with a metronome app up… she started it at a very slow pace of 20 BPM (beats per minute). She left it running… it’s a mind-fuck, you’ll see why below…
Each PS4 game lasted around 20 to 30 or so minutes
Between each games, she would go to him for about 5 minutes… making him hard, and then working him with her hand or mouth (or both) painfully accurate to the beat – never slower, never faster no matter the begging (verbal or non-verbal!)! Slow beats naturally drives him crazy with frustration. Fast beats made him helpless to avoid orgasm.
Before going to her game again, she would increase the BPM. This way he realises the next time it’ll be faster, building the anticipation and getting him horny with anticipation.
She would have a self-imposed timer (time not know to him) of how long she’ll make each “session” with him last… and she’d vary it, and of course stop when she decided he’s getting too close to cumming.
She told me that once he’d had his first orgasm, she decided to carry on her little “experiment” and ended up making him cum another couple of times.
Bonus: Apparently before his first orgasm, instead of working him over to the beat… she got on his chest, making him feel her bare and wanting sex on him… and she made herself cum with her vibrator – making sure to be very vocal and violent on top of him, then got off of him without saying a word and left for another gaming session – leaving him frustrated and wanting!
So hubby got me a game I’ve been nagging him for a couple days ago for an early Christmas present. It’s not really his cup of tea, so for the past few days I’ve been playing it and he was keeping himself busy on his phone, his laptop, reading a book, whatever he could do to kill the boredom.
I realised that I needed to take regular breaks from the game, as to not get headaches and to rest my eyes.
“What better way to do this, than having some fun with hubby?”, I thought to myself!
So the plan for tonight is to:
Tie him to the bed (naked, of course)
Tell the kids to not go bother dad, he’s tired and sleeping (we had an “incident”)
Set my phone’s timer to 20 or 25 minutes, I’ll see how I feel
Each time the timer goes off, I’m going to pause my game, go to the room and get him freshly hard by giving him a blowjob or a handjob or doing something slutty and sexy with him.
Edging him a couple times is key!
Each time he’s going to likely get soft again waiting for me, and I get him back hard again. Hopefully this drives him crazy!
I might blindfold him at some point as well, if not from the get go.
I’d say “wish me luck” but I think I should rather say: “Wish my hubby luck, girls!” – I’ve been known to play PS4 from 5pm to way past midnight!
Pro-tip for this type of thing, if you’re going to join me in this adventure: Use lube, and make sure to hydrate hubby – especially if you’re planning to give him an orgasm every hour or so.
Get to know your metronome app a little – imagining him stroking to the beats. Increase the beat, lower the beat – change it to 2 or 3 “clicks per beat” or like I call them “strokes per beat”. Mess around a little and let your imagination wonder!
Have hubby get ready – perhaps tie everything down except his dominant hand. Blindfold him perhaps?
Start the metronome, and tell hubby:
Your goal is not to cum!
Stroke to the beat!
Don’t stop unless you edge.
Tell me when you edge.
If I tell you to “ride” the edge, stroke at your own pace in order to stay as close to the edge as you can, but do not cum!
If you cum without my permission, you lose.
Then start playing around.
Start slow, speed things up, slow it down again… really get in his head.
Pro-tip: For added fun, eventually when hubby is really worked up – set the speed to a constant, slow and agonising speed and tell him to stick to the speed – then start to play with with yourself and make yourself cum. See if this can make him cum or not. Both is fun. Both is fine 🙂
Hubby loves to spoon… and I know the feeling of sex is overwhelming to him (under the right conditions) when he enters me while spooning. So, we started a bit of a game:
Over the past few days I unlocked him each night, and teased him rock-hard… I made sure his penis is properly lubed up… and then I tell him:
You may enter me, and have your way with me – but only for a fixed amount of seconds. If the timer runs out, you have to pull out! No matter what! The rule is even if he starts cumming he has to pull out, and possibly ruin his orgasm in this manner.
Tuesday (two days ago) it was 10 seconds – he failed! Yesterday it was 20 seconds – he failed! Tonight’s going to be 30 seconds – I think he’s gonna fail again!
Let’s see how long we can drag this out until he gets to cum 🙂
Naturally the amount of seconds added each time is up to you… heck, perhaps connect it to chores done in and around the house – a second added for every thing done! Make him work for it 🙂
Oh, and btw, the plan is that even if he cums say 5 seconds before the timer he still has to pull out when it runs out. I’m hoping that when he gets to cum it ends up being a couple seconds before, and have him pull out and half ruining it.
A great way to drive a man crazy with lust and hormones, is to play with his erection state. When a male gets an erection, it causes testosterone to be injected into his bloodstream, facilitating the production of seminal fluid.
When you have hubby tied to the bed, or a chair, or restrained in some other way – a great (and fun) way for you to drive him absolutely crazy is to tease a rock-hard erection out of him, and then do something else while you wait for it to subside… then tease another one out, and wait for it to subside… carry on like this until you lose interest or take it to the next step.
Not only does it drive him crazy, but it also creates subtly more pressure in his balls – so if you do this, and then don’t let him release, but lock him up again – it’ll drive him crazy!
Careful though – the hornier and crazy he gets, the easier it is for you to “slip up” and push him over the edge. What to do when you make this fun mistake?
Easy: Ruin him!
Or if you want to see how much cum you made him produce, carry on and see if you can break a “personal record” 🙂
A friend asked me how I deal with hygiene when hubby is locked up, and she wants to unlock and play. She mentioned that he smells more musky or sweaty because of the cage. This is natural – the cage isn’t supposed to be there, according to our body, so it’s going to sweat more and there’s nowhere the sweat can go. That’s why daily washing is important!
My advice, if you are planning to “play” with him, do this:
Have him take a shower and wash properly (unlocked)
As usual, when he exits the shower, he should have his cage washed (of course!) and have him put it back on – thinking to himself “ok, no playtime tonight”.
Make sure it’s locked!
Later on, have him lay on the bed and tie him down – properly, so he can’t play with himself. (side-note: men love it when their ladies tie them down extremely well, so make sure he’s properly restrained!)
Unlock him, and have him “air out” a bit.
If you want, use a warm soft wet cloth to “wipe him off” sensually. This always gets my hubby hot for me… and it makes sure you’re happy with things down there.
Then, do what you desire to do with him (or, not! tying him down, unlocking him and then later just lock him back up again could be incredibly frustrating to him!)
Something to consider as well, is the cage. Most people have one already, and stick with it. Chastity cages are expensive! But if you do want to get another one – I’d suggest a chrome/wired one that has lots of breathing space.
Fun game: After denying him an orgasm for a couple days (with chastity or otherwise), have him undresses for “inspection”. Upon making sure he’s properly groomed and clean, tell him to get hard for you.
Have your cane or whip ready.
Tell him to stroke himself and when you tell him to edge he should get to the edge and tell you when he’s there.
Tell him to “ride” the edge until you whip / cane him; then it’s hands off and a rest until you tel him to start again a few seconds later.
Keep going until he’s properly frustrated, properly whipped or both.
Then lock him up again and maybe have him “service” you.
Bonus points for pros if you can have him ruine an orgasm. Be ready to restrain his hands though if that happens, he won’t be able to make himself stop.