Grab yourself a metronome app from the app store. I recommend this one (but there are others with far more features): https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.smp.naturalmetronome&hl=en
Get to know your metronome app a little – imagining him stroking to the beats. Increase the beat, lower the beat – change it to 2 or 3 “clicks per beat” or like I call them “strokes per beat”. Mess around a little and let your imagination wonder!
Have hubby get ready – perhaps tie everything down except his dominant hand. Blindfold him perhaps?
Start the metronome, and tell hubby:
- Your goal is not to cum!
- Stroke to the beat!
- Don’t stop unless you edge.
- Tell me when you edge.
- If I tell you to “ride” the edge, stroke at your own pace in order to stay as close to the edge as you can, but do not cum!
- If you cum without my permission, you lose.
Then start playing around.
Start slow, speed things up, slow it down again… really get in his head.
Pro-tip: For added fun, eventually when hubby is really worked up – set the speed to a constant, slow and agonising speed and tell him to stick to the speed – then start to play with with yourself and make yourself cum. See if this can make him cum or not. Both is fun. Both is fine 🙂